On Tuesday, I had my Advanced Meeting for transplant recipients. It lasted about an hour. My dad and I went to it. I recorded it on my personal little recording device, so my mom could listen to it later on.
We arrived at the hospital by 8:30 because I had a meeting with the wound care people first. They said the same things as usual about my stump. They wanted to try a different bandage this time. That didn't work out so well. It made my stump bleed. >:( We'll never use that stuff again.
Then, we had a bunch of time to kill before the transplant meeting at 12:30, so we went to visit my sister at her bank. I wore a mask everywhere I went that day, so I wouldn't catch anyone's cold. I also carried a little bottle of Purell with me to keep my hands sanitized.
After visiting Hilary, dad was hungry and Hilary suggested a donut place. It took us awhile to find the Donut Whole, but it was worth it. I stayed in the car while dad went inside. Apparently, he couldn't decide what to get, and since he was SO hungry, he bought 3 different donuts so we could try them all out.
I had never had a donut with bacon on it. It was alright. The maple topping covered up the bacon for the most part. I liked the chocolate rice crispie donut best, but dad preffered the triple chocolate donut. Notice a theme? I didn't get any glazed or anything normal because dad went in by himself. The bacon donut was a suggested by Hilary, the other two were dad ideas. My dad LOVES chocolate.
Anyway, then we returned to the hospital and took a nap in the car. We still had lots of time before the meeting. Finally, the meeting time came around and we went inside to attend.
The meeting was hosted by the same lady that did the first meeting I ever went to. She's friendly and really funny. She keeps you awake even when talking about boring stuff. Some of the meeting wasn't relevant for me as it was intended for people who don't have a living donor.
Most of the information was about life AFTER the transplant. We covered the massive amounts of medicine I'll be on, how many times I'll have to come back and meet with people, and the worst part...how many times I will have to come back and get a kidney biopsy.
A kidney biopsy means getting shot. OK, not a normal shot. First you get a normal shot of pain killer to deaden your side. Then, they take a giant version of an ear piercing gun and shoot you in the kidney. It's quick, but hurts. It goes into you and yanks out a little chunk of kidney that they can run tests on. I'm not looking forward to that.
Other than that, I just have to come and talk to them all the time. It means a lot of time in the car driving to and from Wichita. Lots of gas money, and time off work for my mom to drive me.
Well, that's enough for now. Next time I'll blog about the transplant process and what happens immediately before and after. Later! :)
Grace and Peace,
-Nat
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Thursday, October 22, 2009
Please Sign Here ---->
Today I signed on the dotted line. I signed and initialed and signed and initialed and then the doctors signed and then the coordinator witnessed and then.....the deal was sealed. It was like signing for a mortgage.And its official.
My kidney will be oh-so-gently placed within Nathanial very very soon.
My day started out very early. Geoff and I had to be at the hospital by 7:30. I had been fasting for 12 hours prior to the appoitment so they could test my blood sugar first thing. yay...more needles. What I didn't realize, was that after the initial blood drawing, they were going to trap Geoff and I in a closet sized windowless room for the next five hours with nothing more than a TV and two chairs. B-O-R-I-N-G! A lab tech explained that I would drink this extremely sugary drink (that tasted like orange soda) and then they would draw my blood an hour after the drinking. And then two hours after drinking. And then three hours after the drinking.....you get the picture. I don't mean to sound like a baby, but I am going to whine just a little. I have been sick the last two days...killer sore throat, headache, body aches...just yuck. So prior to todays visit, because I had to fast, I couldn't take any medicine. Also, this meant no coffee for me this morning. Me feeling sick and not having my morning coffee made for a very unpleasant and uncomfortable morning for me. And my poor husband was trapped in there with me! Not only was he trapped in the small, overly heated room with a grouchy wife, but the lab tech actually thought he was my dad! (Geoff had just a rough of a day as I did, bless his heart)
By 12:45 I was shaky and I needed food and cold medicine badly. The lab tech finished the final draw just in time for me to run down to the cafeteria and get a baked potato before heading back up to the sixth floor of St Francis. I have to admit, I was a little anxious to meet this doctor. I have heard he is quite the stiff, old fashioned type guy that doesn't like to BS. I felt quite the opposite upon meeting him. Dr Shields made Geoff and I feel right at ease. He first went through a flip chart that begun like this: Renal Failure Options. Option #1 Do Nothing = death. (note the picture I took of the lovely flip chart above) We went thru the proceedure and he answered all of the questions Geoff had for him. We told some jokes and I found out that when they remove my bottom rib, they will let me actually keep my bone for a souvineer!! HOW TOTALLY AWESOME IS THAT!?!?!?!!!!! I was a little surprised to find out I wasn't the first one to ask if I could keep my rib bone. I just have to think of a good way keep the bone after I get to take it home. I doubt Geoff will let me mount it and hang it on the wall. I dont think it would look good hanging around neck. Oh, I'll think of something....
After meeting with Dr Shields, we met with the neprologist who is very concerned about my gestational diabetes. Although, my glucose test came back almost perfect (even better than most normal people) he still had his doubts knowing I had gestational diabetes. He recommended that I see a diabetes specialist prior to the surgery so that he can look over my records and make a recommendation. Just between you and me, even if they say I am in a higher risk catagory for diabetes, it won't stop me. I've made it this far with no problems, I'm sure I can skip some sugar and exercise regularly and be just fine the rest of my life. But I understand, from a neprology side of things, why the doctor wants to at least educate me.
Its been a long day. And I'm so glad to be back home! Now I can take my cold medicine and then go watch my daughters concert and then try to get some rest.
Peace Out Bean Sprouts~
Hilary
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Time is tickin' away...
Everything is mostly done. It's only a matter of time before the transplant happens. To be quite honest, I haven't really thought much about it. I get nervous if I think about it too much. You know, going to the hospital, getting poked, pain medicine, etc... I think it's part of my body's natural defenses to shut down thinking about that stuff.
I came upon an insight several years ago when all this medical stuff started happening to me. I would literally make myself sick, worrying about stuff. The more I thought about it, the sicker I got. My stomach couldn't handle it. I would worry myself sick.
After talking to God about it and reading the Word, I learned something. This isn't my life. I have no claim on it. That's a good thing, since all my decisions seem to end up hurting me in the end. So, I turned it over to God. It's sad that I had to be so far down in order to look up.
Every day is a gift from God. I only exist because He wills me to exist. Every heartbeat happens because He desires it to happen. I live simply because He has decided that it is so. I turned my life COMPLETELY over to God that day. I told Him that I was giving up trying to take and claim what never belonged to me. It was up to Him to do with me as He pleased.
I know cognitively that He and He alone knows what is best for me. I had known this for many years, yet I hadn't ever completely given up that desire for control of my life. This was an INCREDIBLY freeing decision. It is amazing the freedom found in releasing control of that which was never mine to begin with.
Since that day, I have been through tremendous times of pain, suffering and near death experiences. I have yet to worry about any of it. It doesn't matter in the slightest what happens to me. I know God has a plan, and I know He will do it no matter what I think about it. I will live here in the shadowlands as long as He desires me to do so. When He says it is time for me to go home, there's nothing I can do to delay it. God IS in control.
I haven't gone home yet. This means that God isn't done with me here in the shadowlands. Apparently, there's something I still have to accomplish here. Don't get me wrong. Times have been hard enough that I have often prayed for death. I longed to be clothed with my "heavenly tent" as Paul put it. But God said, "Not yet." I still have work to do. I'm not completely sure what it is that God wants me to accomplish before I get to go home. It sure would be easier if He would just tell me, and then I could do it. Perhaps not knowing forces me to show more faith in His providence.
Anyway, I tend to ramble on forever. The kidney transplant is coming up soon, and I'm not the slightest bit nervous. I really don't think about it that much. I spend more time planning on what I'll be doing AFTER the operation and my body has more energy. I'm working toward a goal that I believe God has set before me. Something that my particular make up has built me to be able to accomplish. That is what consumes my thoughts and desires. Until next time...
Grace and Peace,
-Nat
I came upon an insight several years ago when all this medical stuff started happening to me. I would literally make myself sick, worrying about stuff. The more I thought about it, the sicker I got. My stomach couldn't handle it. I would worry myself sick.
After talking to God about it and reading the Word, I learned something. This isn't my life. I have no claim on it. That's a good thing, since all my decisions seem to end up hurting me in the end. So, I turned it over to God. It's sad that I had to be so far down in order to look up.
Every day is a gift from God. I only exist because He wills me to exist. Every heartbeat happens because He desires it to happen. I live simply because He has decided that it is so. I turned my life COMPLETELY over to God that day. I told Him that I was giving up trying to take and claim what never belonged to me. It was up to Him to do with me as He pleased.
I know cognitively that He and He alone knows what is best for me. I had known this for many years, yet I hadn't ever completely given up that desire for control of my life. This was an INCREDIBLY freeing decision. It is amazing the freedom found in releasing control of that which was never mine to begin with.
Since that day, I have been through tremendous times of pain, suffering and near death experiences. I have yet to worry about any of it. It doesn't matter in the slightest what happens to me. I know God has a plan, and I know He will do it no matter what I think about it. I will live here in the shadowlands as long as He desires me to do so. When He says it is time for me to go home, there's nothing I can do to delay it. God IS in control.
I haven't gone home yet. This means that God isn't done with me here in the shadowlands. Apparently, there's something I still have to accomplish here. Don't get me wrong. Times have been hard enough that I have often prayed for death. I longed to be clothed with my "heavenly tent" as Paul put it. But God said, "Not yet." I still have work to do. I'm not completely sure what it is that God wants me to accomplish before I get to go home. It sure would be easier if He would just tell me, and then I could do it. Perhaps not knowing forces me to show more faith in His providence.
Anyway, I tend to ramble on forever. The kidney transplant is coming up soon, and I'm not the slightest bit nervous. I really don't think about it that much. I spend more time planning on what I'll be doing AFTER the operation and my body has more energy. I'm working toward a goal that I believe God has set before me. Something that my particular make up has built me to be able to accomplish. That is what consumes my thoughts and desires. Until next time...
Grace and Peace,
-Nat
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
SUCCESS!!
I would like to start out tonight's blog by letting everyone know I am not pregnant. Yes, yes, I know I have no uterus, but apparently it was still on the agenda for one of my tests today. So now that we have that cleared up we can proceed to how the rest of the day went. I'll start at the beginning....which was early, early in the morning....around 4:30 am.
I believe I blogged last night about being proud of myself for drinking a cup of hot tea and a cup of juice right before bed. Yes, I was doing great with the consumption of fluids, just entirely too late in the evening. I woke up at 4:30 and had to pee so bad I barely made it to the rest room. I did all the right things since I was still in my 24-hour pee collection stage. Even though I could barely keep my eyes open I put the tray in the potty, and then I stumbled through the dark house to find the fridge and pour my 'specimen' into the jug. I replaced the lid and then back to bed I went. No biggie. Until 6am, when I was supposed to collect my last specimen, but couldn't because I had just went at 4:30. I know this sounds miniscule (sp?) but I was really freaking because the renal coordinator had really placed some pressure on me to do everything just right. I was supposed to collect my last pee at exactly 24 hours after my first pee. If I screwed it up, then the whole test was shot. If this was the only issue, I think I would have been okay. But there was one other issue where I temporarily forgot I was saving ALL my pee and when I stepped into my nice warm shower......well.....
Geoff and I arrived at the hospital early enough that we could grab some Starbucks before proceeding to the death chamber, I mean...the lab. He got a nice white chocolate mocha (my favorite) and I was still on the clear liquid fast so I got hot tea. Actually, that was fine for me because I may have thrown up anything I ingested at this point. Nerves were killing me. We headed to the third floor where they smiled and greeted me and asked me to pee in a cup. Apparently, the gallon jug of pee I brought with me wasn't enough. I didn't balk, I have learned not to piss of the lab workers, as they are the ones in charge of sticking needles in you. Its best to be as sweet and pleasing as possible to anyone working in the lab. They gave me my hospital arm band and then let me wait in the waiting room just long enough to really think about everything. I got out my Bible and read a little bit to kill some time. Scripture always seems to calm me. I read a verse to Geoff that I had found the day before. It had struck me as very funny. When the people were wandering around in the desert with Moses and they were griping about only having manna to eat God replied to them saying something like "oh, Ill give you more to eat. I'll give you some meat. So much meat, it comes out your nostrils! Then we'll see what you have to gripe about". That has nothing to do with the waiting room, but I really like that little part of the Bible story. And it made me temporarily forget about the fact that just around the corner was a nurse waiting to suck out my blood with a giant syringe.
Once I was called to the lab a very sweet nurse with a whole handful of blood viles asked me to have a seat. Lol. Me....have a seat....in the lab. Good one. Geoff chuckled to himself while I quickly informed her of my habitual fainting when my veins are being probed and she was kind enough to have me lay on the table. I crawled up on the flimsy table/bed/thing with the paper lining and layed down. I was feeling pretty good until the nurse mentioned that she didn't have enough room to lay all my viles because there were so many to draw... GULP!!! She had TEN, yes TEN empty viles. Trying to be cool, I mentioned I could just scoot closer to the wall the bed was up against and she could lay the viles on the bed. I scooted right over and then noticed there was blood spattered all over the wall! I looked and Geoff and made eyes at him to look at the wall and he gave me his "gross" look back with his eyes and curled his lips. Too late to bring up the blood spatters at this point because the nurse was tying that horrible piece of rubberband like thing around my arm. She wanted me to make a fist while she tapped my arm to fish for a good vein. Okay, this is the part where my legs start jumping around uncontrollably and sweat starts popping out of my forehead like an NBA player. I will skip the next few details. She got the ten viles. I did not die.
On to the 4th floor. They call this section of the hospital the Heart Center. Sounds cute doesn't it? I was very disappointed when I arrived to find it was just a boring floor like all the rest and no one had thought to paint it all cutsie with hearts and love quotes. I knew this floor would be easy and I was right. I was doing an EKG on this floor. They made me take off my shirt and lay down. The nurse put little stickers all over my chest and one on each foot (the foot thing perplexed me, but I didn't want to ask her about it because the nurse seemed a little slow.....). She hooked wires to each one of the stickers and then turned on the machine for 10 seconds. A piece of paper came out of the machine and then we pulled the stickers off and I got dressed. Easiest part of my day.
Lastly, we made the trek to the radiologist. We checked in, sat in the waiting room and watched a little Rachel Ray, and then they called me. Geoff and I got up to head down the hall and the nurse turned to him and told him he could wait in the north waiting room or the west one but he couldn't go with me. WHAT!?! This test is the whole entire reason I needed him with me!!! This was the dreaded, evil test of doom!!!! He reluctantly took my purse and my bag and kissed me good bye while the nurse told him it would only be about an hour. She guided me to a little room where she instructed me to take off my cloths except for my panties and shoes and put on one of the oh-so-sexy hospital gowns. I stripped and made a joke about wearing my panties that said "lets make mistakes" on the butt. I thought it would be funny to leave the gown open in back so people could read it. The nurse didn't think I was funny. Thank goodness I only had that nurse for one x-ray, because a nurse with no sense of humor pretty much sucks. She just did my chest x-ray that lasted only about 20 seconds.
Once the chest x-ray was over it was time for the test. THE TEST!! The test I have been dreading since Thursday when I found out about it. The test I actually was worried about a year ago when we learned about it in some kidney class we took. Oh man. The closer I got to the IVP room, the weaker my knees got. The nurse had me take a seat while she went over a few details....was I pregnant, do I smoke, yada yada yada. The whole time my legs were bouncing around and I was sweating. Right next to her little piece of paper on a clipboard, was three GIANT syringes. When I say giant, I mean, the same size as the cardboard on the inside of paper towel rolls. Yes, that big. No exaggeration. She was explaining how they would hook up the IV and then lay me on this table and inject me with these iodine syringes (pointing to the giantuous ones on the table) and take pictures of my kidneys and bladder processing...blah blah blah. I really didn't hear much after the part about the IV. When my head started rolling around she got all big-eyed and asked me if I would be alright. She told me to take some deep breaths and mentioned something about not being comfortable doing my IV and she was going to go get another nurse to help. Great...two nurses. This typically means one is going to kind of hold me down while the other sticks me. As both nurses returned my hearing shut off and my eyes started going black. I mumbled that I needed to lay down and I just kind of dropped to the floor. I didn't faint, but I needed to quickly feel the nice coldness of the radiology floor. It was so nice and cool. And as long as I was down there on the floor, no one could stick needles in my veins. I know that doesn't sound very logical now, but at the moment it seemed the only option. The nurses were very nice and I totally feel bad now. I warned them though. I warned everyone, from the receptionist, to the radiologist in the first room, to the nurse walking me down the hall. They all knew what they were getting into ahead of time! The nurses got me off the floor and moved me to the table where the x-rays would be taken. They tilted the bed so my head was down and blood would rush back to my cranium. Apparently, that was their last ditch effort to keep me conscious. A cold rag was placed on my head as they explained that they wanted me to just relax for a little while and they would call in the IV specialist team to do the insertion. Right, relax, okay sure.
Actually, I did relax. In fact I almost fell asleep because the IV specialist team took about 30 minutes to show up. The tech was awesome and she was sweet and mild. She told me she does 100 IV's a day and she's very, very good. She didn't give me a chance to balk, she just walked right over, eyeballed a vein right off and wiped it off. I was praying the entire time and I think God was actually with me right then. Because as she told me she was administering the lidocane I didn't even feel the stick. In fact, I didn't hear her pull the paper off the IV needle (which I usually pick up on), I didn't feel her poke the IV in, and I didn't even feel her tape it down. No, that's a lie. I did feel the tape further down my arm near my wrist when she taped that. Her name was Mary Lee and she was an angel. I praised her and told her I was requesting her for the surgery day!! I have never in my whole life experienced a smoother IV insertion!!! Prayer works!!
They took the pictures of my kidneys working and my bladder filling and then they let me pee. Thank goodness!! I had all that hot tea from Starbucks 4 hours earlier, PLUS the IV fluids...I had to go!! Side note: it was so nice to just pee and not worry about aiming for a tray :) They took one last picture of my empty bladder and my day was done!!! I had made it!!! I was past the hard part!!!!!
Geoff and I went up to visit Mark and go over all my results. Technology is amazing. He had all my lab and all my pictures from the dye in my kidneys and everything in just a few minutes!! He showed me my healthy little heart. He showed me my healthy little lungs. He showed me my healthy little blood test results. He showed me my healthy little kidneys. And he showed me my happy little bladder. And he told me my tests all came out great. DID YOU GET THAT? He said my tests all looked great!!!!!!!!! Stress over! Operation Kidney Transplant ready for action!!!!! I meet with a psychologist next Wednesday and I meet with a social worker next Monday. I have one more 24 hour pee test just to make sure they are both conclusive of the same results. Then we meet with the nephrologist and the surgeon and the rest will be history.
All in a days work!
I believe I blogged last night about being proud of myself for drinking a cup of hot tea and a cup of juice right before bed. Yes, I was doing great with the consumption of fluids, just entirely too late in the evening. I woke up at 4:30 and had to pee so bad I barely made it to the rest room. I did all the right things since I was still in my 24-hour pee collection stage. Even though I could barely keep my eyes open I put the tray in the potty, and then I stumbled through the dark house to find the fridge and pour my 'specimen' into the jug. I replaced the lid and then back to bed I went. No biggie. Until 6am, when I was supposed to collect my last specimen, but couldn't because I had just went at 4:30. I know this sounds miniscule (sp?) but I was really freaking because the renal coordinator had really placed some pressure on me to do everything just right. I was supposed to collect my last pee at exactly 24 hours after my first pee. If I screwed it up, then the whole test was shot. If this was the only issue, I think I would have been okay. But there was one other issue where I temporarily forgot I was saving ALL my pee and when I stepped into my nice warm shower......well.....
Geoff and I arrived at the hospital early enough that we could grab some Starbucks before proceeding to the death chamber, I mean...the lab. He got a nice white chocolate mocha (my favorite) and I was still on the clear liquid fast so I got hot tea. Actually, that was fine for me because I may have thrown up anything I ingested at this point. Nerves were killing me. We headed to the third floor where they smiled and greeted me and asked me to pee in a cup. Apparently, the gallon jug of pee I brought with me wasn't enough. I didn't balk, I have learned not to piss of the lab workers, as they are the ones in charge of sticking needles in you. Its best to be as sweet and pleasing as possible to anyone working in the lab. They gave me my hospital arm band and then let me wait in the waiting room just long enough to really think about everything. I got out my Bible and read a little bit to kill some time. Scripture always seems to calm me. I read a verse to Geoff that I had found the day before. It had struck me as very funny. When the people were wandering around in the desert with Moses and they were griping about only having manna to eat God replied to them saying something like "oh, Ill give you more to eat. I'll give you some meat. So much meat, it comes out your nostrils! Then we'll see what you have to gripe about". That has nothing to do with the waiting room, but I really like that little part of the Bible story. And it made me temporarily forget about the fact that just around the corner was a nurse waiting to suck out my blood with a giant syringe.
Once I was called to the lab a very sweet nurse with a whole handful of blood viles asked me to have a seat. Lol. Me....have a seat....in the lab. Good one. Geoff chuckled to himself while I quickly informed her of my habitual fainting when my veins are being probed and she was kind enough to have me lay on the table. I crawled up on the flimsy table/bed/thing with the paper lining and layed down. I was feeling pretty good until the nurse mentioned that she didn't have enough room to lay all my viles because there were so many to draw... GULP!!! She had TEN, yes TEN empty viles. Trying to be cool, I mentioned I could just scoot closer to the wall the bed was up against and she could lay the viles on the bed. I scooted right over and then noticed there was blood spattered all over the wall! I looked and Geoff and made eyes at him to look at the wall and he gave me his "gross" look back with his eyes and curled his lips. Too late to bring up the blood spatters at this point because the nurse was tying that horrible piece of rubberband like thing around my arm. She wanted me to make a fist while she tapped my arm to fish for a good vein. Okay, this is the part where my legs start jumping around uncontrollably and sweat starts popping out of my forehead like an NBA player. I will skip the next few details. She got the ten viles. I did not die.
On to the 4th floor. They call this section of the hospital the Heart Center. Sounds cute doesn't it? I was very disappointed when I arrived to find it was just a boring floor like all the rest and no one had thought to paint it all cutsie with hearts and love quotes. I knew this floor would be easy and I was right. I was doing an EKG on this floor. They made me take off my shirt and lay down. The nurse put little stickers all over my chest and one on each foot (the foot thing perplexed me, but I didn't want to ask her about it because the nurse seemed a little slow.....). She hooked wires to each one of the stickers and then turned on the machine for 10 seconds. A piece of paper came out of the machine and then we pulled the stickers off and I got dressed. Easiest part of my day.
Lastly, we made the trek to the radiologist. We checked in, sat in the waiting room and watched a little Rachel Ray, and then they called me. Geoff and I got up to head down the hall and the nurse turned to him and told him he could wait in the north waiting room or the west one but he couldn't go with me. WHAT!?! This test is the whole entire reason I needed him with me!!! This was the dreaded, evil test of doom!!!! He reluctantly took my purse and my bag and kissed me good bye while the nurse told him it would only be about an hour. She guided me to a little room where she instructed me to take off my cloths except for my panties and shoes and put on one of the oh-so-sexy hospital gowns. I stripped and made a joke about wearing my panties that said "lets make mistakes" on the butt. I thought it would be funny to leave the gown open in back so people could read it. The nurse didn't think I was funny. Thank goodness I only had that nurse for one x-ray, because a nurse with no sense of humor pretty much sucks. She just did my chest x-ray that lasted only about 20 seconds.
Once the chest x-ray was over it was time for the test. THE TEST!! The test I have been dreading since Thursday when I found out about it. The test I actually was worried about a year ago when we learned about it in some kidney class we took. Oh man. The closer I got to the IVP room, the weaker my knees got. The nurse had me take a seat while she went over a few details....was I pregnant, do I smoke, yada yada yada. The whole time my legs were bouncing around and I was sweating. Right next to her little piece of paper on a clipboard, was three GIANT syringes. When I say giant, I mean, the same size as the cardboard on the inside of paper towel rolls. Yes, that big. No exaggeration. She was explaining how they would hook up the IV and then lay me on this table and inject me with these iodine syringes (pointing to the giantuous ones on the table) and take pictures of my kidneys and bladder processing...blah blah blah. I really didn't hear much after the part about the IV. When my head started rolling around she got all big-eyed and asked me if I would be alright. She told me to take some deep breaths and mentioned something about not being comfortable doing my IV and she was going to go get another nurse to help. Great...two nurses. This typically means one is going to kind of hold me down while the other sticks me. As both nurses returned my hearing shut off and my eyes started going black. I mumbled that I needed to lay down and I just kind of dropped to the floor. I didn't faint, but I needed to quickly feel the nice coldness of the radiology floor. It was so nice and cool. And as long as I was down there on the floor, no one could stick needles in my veins. I know that doesn't sound very logical now, but at the moment it seemed the only option. The nurses were very nice and I totally feel bad now. I warned them though. I warned everyone, from the receptionist, to the radiologist in the first room, to the nurse walking me down the hall. They all knew what they were getting into ahead of time! The nurses got me off the floor and moved me to the table where the x-rays would be taken. They tilted the bed so my head was down and blood would rush back to my cranium. Apparently, that was their last ditch effort to keep me conscious. A cold rag was placed on my head as they explained that they wanted me to just relax for a little while and they would call in the IV specialist team to do the insertion. Right, relax, okay sure.
Actually, I did relax. In fact I almost fell asleep because the IV specialist team took about 30 minutes to show up. The tech was awesome and she was sweet and mild. She told me she does 100 IV's a day and she's very, very good. She didn't give me a chance to balk, she just walked right over, eyeballed a vein right off and wiped it off. I was praying the entire time and I think God was actually with me right then. Because as she told me she was administering the lidocane I didn't even feel the stick. In fact, I didn't hear her pull the paper off the IV needle (which I usually pick up on), I didn't feel her poke the IV in, and I didn't even feel her tape it down. No, that's a lie. I did feel the tape further down my arm near my wrist when she taped that. Her name was Mary Lee and she was an angel. I praised her and told her I was requesting her for the surgery day!! I have never in my whole life experienced a smoother IV insertion!!! Prayer works!!
They took the pictures of my kidneys working and my bladder filling and then they let me pee. Thank goodness!! I had all that hot tea from Starbucks 4 hours earlier, PLUS the IV fluids...I had to go!! Side note: it was so nice to just pee and not worry about aiming for a tray :) They took one last picture of my empty bladder and my day was done!!! I had made it!!! I was past the hard part!!!!!
Geoff and I went up to visit Mark and go over all my results. Technology is amazing. He had all my lab and all my pictures from the dye in my kidneys and everything in just a few minutes!! He showed me my healthy little heart. He showed me my healthy little lungs. He showed me my healthy little blood test results. He showed me my healthy little kidneys. And he showed me my happy little bladder. And he told me my tests all came out great. DID YOU GET THAT? He said my tests all looked great!!!!!!!!! Stress over! Operation Kidney Transplant ready for action!!!!! I meet with a psychologist next Wednesday and I meet with a social worker next Monday. I have one more 24 hour pee test just to make sure they are both conclusive of the same results. Then we meet with the nephrologist and the surgeon and the rest will be history.
All in a days work!
Sunday, October 4, 2009
My Jugs
So........its about nine o'clock and I'm getting ready for bed soon. I have this dilema, because I don't know exactly how I'm going to hide these pee jugs at work tomorrow. As gross as this is, I have to save every last drop of pee for 24 hours starting tomorrow morning as soon as I wake up. I'm doing whats called a "creatinine test". You see, a few years ago, my little brother had several really bad things go wrong with this body which resulted in him having total kidney failure. He's been on dialysis for three years. Actually, this month is the anniversary of the hospitalization which caused his kidneys to take a permanent vacation.
Wow...three years. Three years of going to the hospital three times a week and being hooked to machines that take all of his blood out, clean it, and then return it to its rightful place.....back inside of him. Three years of multiple surgeries to remove and replace the 'plugs' that connect his veins and arteries to these machines. Three years of never getting to travel further than a days car ride from the hospital. Three years of what I can only imagine is pure misery. Of course, I don't pretend to understand what he's going through. I'm sure the things he's endured the past three years are beyond my realm of comprehension. That is why I am starting this blog.
I have completed some preliminary testing and have been determined a suitable donor for Nathanial (my brother). There are more tests to complete before we can actually schedule the transplant, but I am going to start sharing the experience through this blog starting now. I am going to post blogs, and I am going to ask him to post blogs. Together, we will document our journey throughout the kidney transplant process. I will post my perspective of things, and he will post his. And maybe, in a few years, we can go back and read this and have one of those "oh remember when" moments. Maybe other people in our same situation can read our blog and it will relieve some of their angst. Or maybe it will result in nothing more than therapy.
But back to my jugs. Because this creatinine test involves 24 hours of pee, and because I was gone most of the weekend, I have to start tomorrow morning. Which means hauling my not-so-discreet jugs to work. I think I can fit them in a bag to get them into and out of the bank. But I'm not so sure my co-workers want my bottles of urine sitting in the fridge of our break room. I will have to wrap them in some sort of larger bag....maybe a paper grocery sack that is stapled shut...before putting them in the fridge. Dilemma number two: do I tell my coworkers what is in the jugs? Or do I just let them think the fridge is a 'pee-free' zone. I mean, I don't want to gross them out, but I don't want to not tell them and have them find out either. I guess I will just cross that bridge when I get to it.
After the 24 hour pee collection process, I have a series of tests scheduled at St Francis with the lab. The renal donor coordinator (whom I love, by the way) is named Mark Blackmore. Mark has really been awesome . He says his sole job right now is making sure I'm safe. He makes sure I get all the rights tests so that if I am the donor, nothing goes wrong with me afterwards. I, for one, think that sounds like a really good idea! However, one of the tests he has scheduled for Tuesday seem like something out of one of my nightmares. There are the easy ones....the chest XRay and the bloodwork. There is the EKG and the AIDS test. There is the hepatitis test and the physical exam. But the one that gets to me is the IVP--the Xray of the kidneys, ureters and pelvis. Apparently, they are going to hook me to an IV for this test. There are only two things I am terrified of in this whole entire world. Those are: being abducted by an alien and IV's.
I am not just a little scared of Tuesdays tests, I am MORTIFIED. I will most likely pass out at least twice before they get the IV all connected right. I get nervous and I start shaking, making it very difficult for the nurse to insert the needle. Then, apparently, even my veins are nervous, because they always start rolling making it even more difficult for the nurses. Once, when I was in full blown labor, it took three nurses to hold me down to get the IV in my arm.....and then (mind you, I was in full blown labor) I fainted. I am tough in a lot of situations, but tell me you are going to shove a needle into one of my veins and I am a weinie. So, as you can conclude, I am a little less than excited for Tuesday to get here.
I will record more of my experience tomorrow. For now, I would like to leave one final thought for my first Organ Trail blog. A lot of people have remarked lately that I must be very brave. They have made comments like, "oh, you're such an angel to do this for your brother", or "what a great thing you are willing to sacrifice for Nathanial". While these comments are meant with the best intentions, it usually leaves me feeling a little weirded out. I compare it to walking past someone who is drowning. Even strangers jump into a lake to save someone who is drowning. Certainly, if it was your own sibling, one would jump in to save them! I am by no means a hero. I am by no means a brave soul. I am a sister who loves my brother and hates his suffering. I am human. And I am scared.
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