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Today I signed on the dotted line. I signed and initialed and signed and initialed and then the doctors signed and then the coordinator witnessed and then.....the deal was sealed. It was like signing for a mortgage.

And its official.

My kidney will be oh-so-gently placed within Nathanial very very soon.

My day started out very early. Geoff and I had to be at the hospital by 7:30. I had been fasting for 12 hours prior to the appoitment so they could test my blood sugar first thing. yay...more needles. What I didn't realize, was that after the initial blood drawing, they were going to trap Geoff and I in a closet sized windowless room for the next five hours with nothing more than a TV and two chairs. B-O-R-I-N-G! A lab tech explained that I would drink this extremely sugary drink (that tasted like orange soda) and then they would draw my blood an hour after the drinking. And then two hours after drinking. And then three hours after the drinking.....you get the picture. I don't mean to sound like a baby, but I am going to whine just a little. I have been sick the last two days...killer sore throat, headache, body aches...just yuck. So prior to todays visit, because I had to fast, I couldn't take any medicine. Also, this meant no coffee for me this morning. Me feeling sick and not having my morning coffee made for a very unpleasant and uncomfortable morning for me. And my poor husband was trapped in there with me! Not only was he trapped in the small, overly heated room with a grouchy wife, but the lab tech actually thought he was my dad! (Geoff had just a rough of a day as I did, bless his heart)

By 12:45 I was shaky and I needed food and cold medicine badly. The lab tech finished the final draw just in time for me to run down to the cafeteria and get a baked potato before heading back up to the sixth floor of St Francis. I have to admit, I was a little anxious to meet this doctor. I have heard he is quite the stiff, old fashioned type guy that doesn't like to BS. I felt quite the opposite upon meeting him. Dr Shields made Geoff and I feel right at ease. He first went through a flip chart that begun like this: Renal Failure Options. Option #1 Do Nothing = death. (note the picture I took of the lovely flip chart above) We went thru the proceedure and he answered all of the questions Geoff had for him. We told some jokes and I found out that when they remove my bottom rib, they will let me actually keep my bone for a souvineer!! HOW TOTALLY AWESOME IS THAT!?!?!?!!!!! I was a little surprised to find out I wasn't the first one to ask if I could keep my rib bone. I just have to think of a good way keep the bone after I get to take it home. I doubt Geoff will let me mount it and hang it on the wall. I dont think it would look good hanging around neck. Oh, I'll think of something....

After meeting with Dr Shields, we met with the neprologist who is very concerned about my gestational diabetes. Although, my glucose test came back almost perfect (even better than most normal people) he still had his doubts knowing I had gestational diabetes. He recommended that I see a diabetes specialist prior to the surgery so that he can look over my records and make a recommendation. Just between you and me, even if they say I am in a higher risk catagory for diabetes, it won't stop me. I've made it this far with no problems, I'm sure I can skip some sugar and exercise regularly and be just fine the rest of my life. But I understand, from a neprology side of things, why the doctor wants to at least educate me.

Its been a long day. And I'm so glad to be back home! Now I can take my cold medicine and then go watch my daughters concert and then try to get some rest.

Peace Out Bean Sprouts~
Hilary

All the Lose Ends

I don't have much to blog about today, but its been a few days since the last update so I'll fill everyone in. Nathanial is headed to Wichita today (face mask and hand sanitizer in tow so as to avoid swine flu!). He is attending his final 'Advanced Transplant' class in the transplant center at St Francis. The whole family attended one of these classes last year when we first started planning. The class is EXTREMELY uncomfortable. They talk about flank incisions, and they talk about getting a tube shoved in your pee hole, and they talk about the epidural, and they talk about medications after the surgery, and they do their best to really really talk you out of going through with it if you aren't a 100% dedicated. I remember getting grossed out enough that I lost my appetite--and, FYI, it takes a lot of work to make me lose my appetite!! I remember them going over some statistics of survival rates and things like that. They also talked about the financials of the process. So, today's meeting is a follow-up to that original meeting for Nathanial.

I believe Nat also meets with the wound specialist today. For those of you that don't know, back when Nathanial went septic a few years ago, he also lost half of one of his feet. His entire foot had turned a nasty shade of green/black with oozies coming out of it and mom and dad had to make the decision (while Nathanial was still in a coma) to go ahead and remove part of his foot to save the rest. He lost both of his calves and his nose and a few fingertips, but the major thing was his foot. His foot still gives him problems to this day. He had another surgery just a few months ago to shave off a little more of the foot bone and the doctor added some shark cartlidge to help the foot heal better. Apparently, when you don't have kidney function, you don't heal well from other illnesses. For three years, Nathanials foot wouldn't heal from the original surgery. It was very painful for him. He couldn't walk very far or for very long at a time. He had to keep his foot bandaged at all times and change his dressings often. It was all very sad. Then just a few weeks before my wedding is when he had surgery to add the shark cartlidge. We were all very impressed with how quickly he was up and walking after this proceedure. Now he has special little shoes that go around his stub to make him walk better! But back to my original thought--today he follows up with the wound care doctor for his foot. They have to make sure the foot is doing alright before proceeding with the transplant.

I don't have any more tests or meetings until Thursday. Thursday I have to take the entire day off work. So far, I have managed to just take bits and pieces of my work days off for all my tests and meetings. The bank has been really good about working with me on my schedule. This Thursday puts a bit of a kink in things at work because we have several people gone, but no one has given me a hard time about not being here. Everyone at work seems to understand, and even though they don't really know Nathanial, they are all cheering for him. I know its hard on people that aren't part of the family to really wrap their mind around how important this is.

I have been scheduled a glucose tolerance test on Thursday. I guess they don't usually do this test for the donor, but because I had gestational diabetes when I was pregnant with Corynne, they want to make sure I don't have diabetic tendencies now. Then just yesterday I got a phone call telling me that I not only get to meet with the Nephrologist Thursday, but I also get to meet with the Surgeon!!!! So that is HUGE news! On my checklist of things left to do, that completely wraps me up. I am hoping we get to schedule the actual date of the transplant Thursday! We shall see....and when I find out, believe you me, I will blog about it! ~Hilary